This article addresses the concept of “reactive abuse,” where victims of prolonged abuse defend themselves physically, and abusers manipulate the situation to portray the victim as the primary aggressor. It explains how abusers provoke victims into reacting and then claim to law enforcement that they are the ones being abused, causing confusion and potential legal trouble for the victim. The article emphasizes that fighting back in self-defense is not abuse and outlines strategies for victims to protect themselves, including documenting past abuse and creating a safety plan. It highlights the importance of understanding this manipulation tactic and encourages survivors to seek help and resources to ensure their safety